Set expectations
Children are happier if the rules are clear and consistently applied.
You can set the tone by establishing the expectations for behaviour and following up on what you say. (Follow the Cybertots policy "Guiding children's behaviour") Consult your supervisor before changing Cybertots expectations or applying them in very different ways.
You might find that some children have backgrounds with very different standards.
- In some cases, you can be flexible, for example, working with a disability or different cultural backgrounds.
- In other cases, children will come from homes that allow behaviour that you cannot permit in childcare. For example, some families might simply let an altercation take its course, even if results in a fight. You will have to say that "The way we do it here is …" Note that some children might feel that Cybertots is their only safe, enjoyable environment. However, be careful not to undermine what parents do at home.
Examples of appropriate expectations are:
Behaviour inside and outside e.g. walk on the cement, sit while you eat, take turns to speak, listen to instructions, keep your hands to yourself, etc.
Respect others when using equipment and resources, e.g. take turns, and share.
Helping others.
Respect other people and other opinions.
How would you feel if you didn't know what was expected of you? Or if it changed all the time in ways you didn't understand?