Common self-help milestones

All children develop differently. Below are age groups and some self-help milestones commonly achieved. Remember, not all children will achieve skills at the same age/s.

0 – 12 months

• feeds self a biscuit
• holds cup with two hands; drinks with assistance
• holds out arms and legs while being dressed.

1 – 2 years

• uses a spoon with little spillage
• drinks from a cup unassisted
• chews food
• removes shoes, socks, pants
• starting to indicate toilet needs
• seats self in child size chair.

2 – 3 years

• uses spoon
• opens door by turning the handle
• takes off coat
• puts on coat with assistance.

3 – 4 years

• pours well from small jug
• can spread butter with knife
• can undo and do up large buttons
• washes and dries hands unassisted.

4 – 5 years

• cuts easy food with a knife eg, hamburger patty.

5 – 6 years

• dresses self completely
• can generally tie shoe laces.